Linda Price, MS
I recently saw a television advertisement for a financial investment company, where a 50 something year old executive man, announces proudly, “I am ready,” suggesting he is financially ready to retire to which his attractive, middle-aged wife responds, “What will you do?” He thinks for a moment and says, “I don’t know, putter around the house?” His wife answers, “I’m not ready.”
When Boomers plan for retirement, they generally plan financially. Of the 77 million people retiring, most will not fully consider what life will be like when they leave their jobs and how they want to spend their time.
Retirement comes and Boomers tend to fall into two distinct
groups. The first group is those who
delay retiring, staying on their job because they do not know what they want to
do next. For some, dreams were long ago buried and forgotten as they focused on
more practical matters. The second group
fearlessly leaves their career,
declaring “I’m off to play golf”, “Open a Bed & Breakfast” or “travel the world”, only to discover that a single focus approach
to retirement is not fulfilling. The question is why are intelligent,
successful Boomers not ready? Why, when they talk about retirement and will
have the time and resources to create any future they want for themselves, do
they think of it as time to “putter around the house?” In fact, they do want more than “puttering
around the house.” The irony is they just have not had time to think about what
they want to do.
There are other reasons the Boomer may not be “ready;” they are basing their retirement thinking and plans on an outdated idea of what retirement means. The Industrial Age model -- where factories needed to replace older workers with younger workers and once retired, you were considered “useless” is no longer relevant. Yet that model is still affecting how we approach our retirement and our planning for it. The word “retirement” itself can conjure up images of withdrawing, being disposed of, losing interest, getting out, preparing for sleep, being put out to pasture, hanging up one’s spurs and being over-the-hill, to name a few.
These images of retirement are based on the past, but these old societal beliefs still hang on in our thinking. The Boomer cohort, a huge demographic, is once again on the vanguard of change, and will reinvent the notion of what it means to retire and create meaningful and fulfilling lives.
What will it take to get the Boomers ready? I believe the most efficient way to get ready is to think about creating post-career goals in a systematic fashion. The Boomer needs to think about and gain answers to four high-powered questions that will guide, clarify and add velocity to the future.
These high-powered questions can be answered independently or a couple can work together to generate their answers. The Boomer can also seek the guidance of an executive coach or career coach for additional direction and support. There is no correct way to do the inquiry. What is important is that the Boomer engages with the questions and gain clarity on life goals and legacy.
Question 1: What thoughts do I have about retirement that are stopping or limiting me?
Question 2: What are my dreams and life purpose?
Question 3: How will I invest my time to create a meaningful and satisfying life?
Question 4: How will I monitor my satisfaction?
These questions are simple, but not easy. The answers to these questions cannot be looked up or Googled. To gain access to the answers and even deepen the inquiry takes time and patience. Sometimes the answers do not come right away. However, the answers will surface.
Such an approach catalyzes and accelerates the transition into a satisfying and productive post-career life and allows the Boomer to launch into a new phase of life “ready” to find and sustain satisfaction for the 20 years ahead.
For more information on how to reinvent retirement and launch and sustain an innovative a new life, contact Linda Price at iFuture, 212 874-3645.



